It’s comforting to assume that great things are accomplished by those innately blessed with natural talent, skill and good fortune. If I believe that certain people are predestined for greatness, then it makes my own mediocrity more palatable.
But it’s a false comfort. What happens when reality strikes, and I’m forced to confront that, with rare exceptions, we all have simiIar potential and capacity for achievement? That means I must take ownership over my successes and failures.
This is an issue I struggled with as a young lawyer. I performed well enough, but I always had a nagging feeling that I was just meeting the bar, not surpassing it. Too often chalked this up to the fact that some people were simply better than me, which, I now know, was just a way to let myself off the hook. In most cases, people were better because they simply willed themselves to be better.